Starting this blog with a smile. His first smile caught by mom’s camera. He is 7 days old.
The Joy of Fatherhood, the Pain of Distance: My Journey as a Working Dad
Becoming a dad for the second time is something I’ll never forget. The joy of welcoming my second son into this world is beyond words. But at the same time, my heart feels heavy because I’m so far away, working overseas to support my family. It’s a mix of emotions—happiness and heartache.
A New Chapter of Joy
When I heard my second son was born, it was like a bright light in my life. Seeing his tiny face in pictures and hearing his first cries over a video call brought tears to my eyes. He’s a symbol of hope, love, and the strength of our family, even when we’re miles apart.
I can’t wait to hold him in my arms. I picture him grabbing my finger with his little hand and me telling him how much I love him. Even though I’m not there right now, my heart is with him every step of the way.
The Challenge of Distance
Working overseas has always been a tough choice, but I’ve done it for my family. Being away during moments like this makes it even harder. Watching my kids grow up through a screen is painful, but I keep reminding myself why I’m here—to give them a better life and secure their future.
It’s lonely sometimes, but it’s also what pushes me to keep going. I hold on to the little things—video calls with my wife, hearing my older child laugh, and seeing my newborn’s peaceful face in photos. Those moments keep me grounded.
Staying Connected
Even though we’re far apart, I do everything I can to stay close. Technology is my best friend right now. Calls, messages, and photos help me stay involved in their lives. I chat with my wife about her day, and soak in every detail she shares about our boys.
I’ve also started writing blogs to my sons. It’s my way of sharing my thoughts and feelings, something they can keep forever. It reminds them that their dad’s love is always with them, no matter the distance.
A Message to My Sons
To my boys, you mean the world to me. Every day I spend away from you is a reminder of how much I love you. My dream is simple—for you to grow up happy, healthy, and surrounded by love. Everything I do, I do for you and our family.
One day, I hope you’ll understand the choices I’ve made and the sacrifices I’ve faced. Until then, I’ll keep working hard, knowing that every step I take brings me closer to holding you both in my arms again.
Looking Ahead
This journey isn’t easy, but it’s full of purpose. The joy of being your dad and the hope of coming home to you both keeps me going. Even with the challenges of working overseas, I dream of the day we’re all together, celebrating the love that distance can never break.
To all the parents out there making sacrifices for their families, I see you. This is a reminder that love knows no boundaries. Even in the toughest times, our love and determination will always shine through.
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